[苦惱] 為了錢爭吵~
我跟我老公新婚5個月
錢都歸我管,
他很信任我,所以一切都沒有問題
但是問題在於他對朋友太有義氣了!!
有一個認識3.4年的朋友
剛退伍就到保險業上班
剛好我老公需要保保險
因此朋友來推銷他也義不容辭的答應
我當然也OK,畢竟老公本來就需要保
但是這幾天對帳下來,
發現下個月的薪水扣除一些必繳的如房租、水電費等費用
實在不夠用,因為有一項一定必須繳且有時間規定,
那就是我在讀碩士的學分費,剛好下個月要繳個幾萬塊
因此就跟老公說,希望能延後到下下個月再跟朋友保保險
但是他卻生氣,
說他都跟朋友說好了,朋友就差他這筆單就可以當主任
但是我認為保險下個月再跟朋友保
真的會有這麼大的問題嗎?
或許我不懂保險業的規定
但是老公卻因為這件事情跟我吵架
並且執意要去借錢然後去保險
我很無奈
因為我一直認為沒有非常急用,為何要借錢
又要欠別人人情,
明明下下個月就可以保險,
有差到這個月嗎?
還是說有人有同樣情形,或是真的要幫朋友到這種程度?
"義氣"兩個字真的重要到要去借錢幫助別人嗎?
或許我不懂,有人可以開導我一下
或者可以幫幫我,如何跟我老公溝通呢?
謝謝大家
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