Re: [求助] 吃飯的錢是誰要出?消失
就媳婦角度而言
其實,碰到這種不懂得彼此回饋的人,相處久了,沒幾個人喜歡吧?
是家人就隱忍他、面對他、接受他、放下他(let it be)...
不就是因為小姑"男友",關係還八竿子打不著,至少還未結婚,
就算結婚,跟媳婦的關係也沒啥好連結,
有連結的是老公,老婆跟老公原生家庭沒有深刻情感乃人之常情,
雖然女性網友總是以和為貴,再加上做做面子,做做人情
從各種角度說服媳婦要識大體
但我的人生經歷是,人際交往不願意付出的人,實在要敬而遠之,瓜葛越少越好,
因為,我不害人,卻不能保證人不害我,(害指可大可小)
除非小姑男友只是現在小氣,而非凹人,損人利己的個性
否則,長遠來看,你們影響還小,你婆婆就冷暖自知了
對女婿好,是為了女兒著想,可這社會越來越多不懂得感恩的人
對這種人,好反而是助紂為虐
我認為跟老公提一下這出錢的方式,如果他做大哥的真對妹妹好,
也該提點一下老妹,人成熟了就該懂得負責和感恩的回饋,不然結婚結假的嗎?
否則不也是溺愛
如果老公沒意見,那就是老公的人生課題,讓他慢慢去學習吧~
我老公參加我們娘家家族聚會會主動付款,我很感恩他識大體
但如果沒有,我也不認為那是他的責任,畢竟這是我的原生家庭,是我該對家人負責
所以
回到原PO情況,出錢應該是哥哥和妹妹去搶,妹妹從不搶,那就是妹妹不懂得回饋
而,妹妹男友出不出錢,就純粹類比為一般人出去吃飯,彼此 go dutch,
吃這麼多次免錢飯,還不出錢,就真是沒禮貌外加厚臉皮,
如果對方還是未來老婆家人出錢,就更加沒氣度
態度決定高度,總是沒錯的~
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