Re: [苦惱] 結婚登記和家事分工
這幾天再跟他溝通
他提到
希望以後我不要在回家包飯吃了
要學會獨立不要在依賴原生家庭
而且你幾乎每天都回娘家
根本沒有把心放在我們這個家
我不懂
雖然我比較早下班但是下班還是會覺得累呀
今天我娘家那邊願意幫我處理好晚餐(他沒有負擔任何費用)
我把晚餐包回來這樣就是沒把心放在這個家嗎?
還是其實他在意的是我每天回娘家??
後來我有提到
"你要我自己煮可以
你先煮一個禮拜包括買菜洗菜煮一餐
你覺得你可以應付的話
我就來做
如果你做不到我要請哪個幫手隨便我 "
他不吭聲
只說"你就是要我煮給你吃嘛"
家事的部份
今天他是有分擔洗衣服和拖2樓客廳地板的部份
但是看起來是相當不情願的
我另外把一些自己的私密衣物洗淨後
他就說你要把4樓房間拖一拖唷
等我拖完房間他又說
那個3樓的部份你不用提水下去拖了
3樓有水龍頭可以用
我想說好吧沒關係我拖一下
後來拖完之後
他就說
你3樓真的有拖嗎這麼快唷
那這樣你幹麻之前一直跟我計較
幹麻還要我幫忙做
我一聽火氣也上來了
我說又是幫忙這些都是我的事情嗎?
他就說本來就是你的事
我們家就是這樣
你就是要適應
就這樣又吵起來了
真不知到底該如何維繫下去了
我是不是真的做的不對或太少
咳....
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