[苦惱] 結婚登記和家事分工
結婚至今兩個月
原先老公竟因為想節稅的問題而遲遲不願意登記
甚至想說懷孕有小孩之後再說
後來因我不斷抗議和溝通才答應要去登記
到了登記前一天
因為飯後我希望由他洗碗的問題大吵一架後
加上之前我也有提到部份家事由他分擔
登記4/30當天他就說他不去了
他一直強調他每天上班很辛苦很累
他回到家不想再做任何家事
後來我妥協說不然平常晚餐和洗碗我來負責
但是假日家裡的其他家事我們一起來做
他就說他頂多我洗衣服時他幫忙把房間地板拖一拖
客廳的部分他不想碰
他就說你自己去做如果做不完你就慢慢做呀
昨天我又提到要登記的事
沒想到他竟然說
"我要求你做的事情我看你也沒做好"
一付現在就是你的試用期啦
你不把家裡的家事都包下來
你就別想要我去登記的樣子
我應該要怎麼跟他溝通呢?
我覺得我自己已經有退讓了
可是他就是依然堅持他大男人的作風
咳....
有時候想想反正也沒登記不算結婚
乾脆直接搬出去自己過自己的生活算了
真的是不知如何是好?
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