Re: [苦惱] 小姑的小孩
也許有人覺得我罵小孩"沒家教"這種處理方式不妥當
但是當你每天面對著這個總是對你不禮貌的孩子
見了面不是罵你就是跑來打你,長達半年的時間每天總是上演個幾次 (家暴!?)
不管對長輩,或是在外面對其他小孩都有攻擊性的行為
她老媽也只是坐在沙發上,有時候叫一下"不可以~"
甚至我正在跟婆婆說話她跑到我旁邊一直打我,婆婆都沒說什麼也不制止
以前她還沒這麼皮的時候我常陪她玩
也會帶她出去買東西晃晃
自從她變本加厲打人之後我就很少陪她玩了
我並不是完全不敎,都是柔性勸導,但她完全不聽我的話
總是對打我的小孩說"你這樣不乖喔,不可以打人"
我是故意說出來的,提醒他們"你的小孩正在打我喔"
但是他們總是對孩子的行為視而不見,偶而講一下"不可以"這樣而已
也許他們當小孩在跟我玩,那麼我該如何表達我的不滿呢?
我都已經在他們面前明說了"你不要打我了啦""在這樣舅媽不喜歡你"
我是故意說給大人聽的,為什麼他們還可以無視我的感受呢?
一直到某一天我爆發出來,在婆婆面前重話罵小孩
但是馬上讓婆婆生氣了,我知道,所以我過兩小時就跑去跟婆婆道歉
"我們的孩子外人沒權利管"
所以我也一向不干涉他們怎麼管教,但是忍到今天不小心爆發了
而婆婆竟然認為"我是因為沒小孩的關係不懂他們怎麼敎小孩"
(我最近開始被公婆催生,連這個也被她拿來做文章)
這件事情我也順便探到了底限,那就是《我管他們小孩的話他們會不爽》
現在他們會管束小孩不禮貌的行為,我這帖重藥算是有效
雖然現在跟婆婆,小姑的關係變的有點緊張
我現在沒事都躲在房間,也不想跟那孩子有接觸
等小姑他們搬走熬過去就沒事了
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