[苦惱] 小姑的小孩
我跟老公結婚九個月,還沒有小孩
一起住在婆家,我們家很大,而且公婆喜歡一堆人住在一起
同住的還有小叔(未婚,年底結婚,婚後預計繼續住)
小姑三年前結婚嫁到鄉下,生了一個女孩之後就長住在娘家
後來懷第二胎就理所當然的繼續住,讓我婆婆照顧幫他做月子
現在小孩都三個多月大了還是住著,原因不明
其實她愛住哪裡只要她婆家跟我公婆他們談好就好,我管不著
問題就是她生的老大三歲,現在很皮,她們也都不太管小女孩
常常沒事就來打我,或是罵人
就算是她姑婆偶而來坐坐,小女孩也是打人罵人
帶出去更不得了,去商店看到比她高的小朋友也跑去打人家
我非常討厭她沒事來打我,更討厭的是她媽跟我婆婆他們看了都沒怎樣
就這樣放任小孩,以至於小孩打人都成習慣了,到外面去也是
昨天我就第一次爆炸了
飯後我到廚房洗碗,婆婆在客廳哄小孩睡覺,小姑在樓上的房間
小孩一直在叫:舅媽XX 舅媽XX (XX是罵人的意思,但不是髒話)
剛好生理期快來了情緒有點無法控制,就罵她"沒家教"
我婆婆聽了就很不高興,有跟我先生說
我先生跟我一致認為他們平日就是太寵小孩子才會這樣(站我這邊)
但是我晚一點脾氣比較消了有去跟婆婆道歉
婆婆說小朋友不懂事就是會這樣,等她上幼稚園的年紀如果這樣會教訓她
還說我還沒有小孩還不懂,等我有小孩就知道了= =
其實我也知道小孩不懂事要體諒她
但我畢竟不是她的父母,也不是她阿公阿嬤
沒辦法有那麼大的包容心
攻擊性的行為會讓人心裡不舒服,忍耐久了總有一天會爆發
跟我有沒有小孩一點關係都沒有
就算我有小孩也不會放任她對長輩不禮貌,攻擊其他小孩的行為
我先生跟我小叔在那個小孩不乖時會罵她,甚至拿棍子假裝要打她
婆婆跟我小姑就不會怎樣
我想應該是我是外人的關係
現在我在樓下遇到他們就打個招呼趕快閃了
小叔的未婚妻來我們家吃飯也是不太理那孩子
我看的出來她應該也不太喜歡那孩子
要是他們再不管緊一點
等小叔結婚後又一個人要爆發了XD
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