[苦惱] 100分的婆婆卻讓我很憂鬱..
看板marriage作者babesweety (全新的小怡!!!)時間13年前 (2010/10/15 22:43)推噓26(29推 3噓 68→)留言100則, 43人參與討論串1/10 (看更多)
我的婆婆..很好..很完美..真的是100分......
但是..我這個媳婦卻愈來愈憂鬱了......
產假結束後..我的小孩就給婆婆帶..
真得是感謝婆婆對孫子無微不至的照顧..一歲半的他很可愛也很健康..
婆婆帶孫子真得很用心..生活方面..教養方面..都讓我這個媽媽很放心..
而現在的狀況是..白天我上班把孩子交給婆婆..下班後及假日就自己帶..
而因為和公婆住附近的關係..
就算是我自己帶小孩的平日晚上或假日..
他們也都還會來看孫子..或是偶爾我和先生也會抱去公婆家裡玩..
但..這陣子卻發現..兒子不黏媽媽卻黏婆婆..
在我手中抱的時候都還會要撲過去要奶奶抱..
奶奶一不見..兒子就會急著要找她..
這種種類似的狀況讓我這個媽媽看了好難過好難過..
畢竟自己也是很全心全意的照顧兒子..
但也為了家中經濟而無法請育嬰假自己帶小孩..
要不然我多想好好當個全職媽媽呀..
所以..最近的我變得很憂鬱..甚至一度情緒面臨崩潰邊緣..
因為婆婆真得很好..我當然不能怪他..
但當媽媽的看到自己兒子似乎愈離愈遠..心都快碎了..
就算和先生談過這些問題似乎也無法緩解自己的情緒..
和同事聊到這個話題他們也說孩子大了就不會這樣了..
而現在..我只能自己悶在這裡..一直想不開..
到底這樣的狀況會不會持續下去呢?!
是不是真得孩子大一點就不會這樣了..
不知道版上有沒有類似經驗的媽媽可以分享你過來人的經驗..
讓我這個憂鬱媽媽可以寬心..
謝謝大家..@_@
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