[閒聊] 什麼才是「對的」人?
剛剛在聊,講到l先生的一個概念,
應該就是反正不對的人就別結。別硬去改變人家什麼。
這句話我還蠻贊成,雖然這句話是頗為放大絕的話。XD
我是覺得很有道理啦......但其實這種說法是要有前提的,
那就是:結婚的人可以充分瞭解跟這個人結婚的所有可能後果。
但是,有可能嗎?
這就跟選擇與消費差不多,若是資訊透明公開,而且退貨機制OK,
或是說這顯而易見就是個爛掉的水果,你還硬要挑,
所以,若還是選到爛東西,那就是你眼光爛,自找的。
可是若不是如此呢?
其實我這樣比有點不倫不類,因為婚姻跟行商不同,商業失敗了下一次再來就好,
婚姻失敗一次就是重傷了,更不用說失敗很多次......
所以結婚真的要慎選,但是這個「慎重」要慎重到什麼地步呢?
有可能真的找到一個完美的老公或老婆嗎?
每個人都是在冒著風險下結婚的,
王子公主(不管實質或理想上)的完美婚姻只存在童話裡。
有些人對於結婚的要求並未那麼高,不一定要很深的愛情,
看對眼,可以生活,對方關燈後不討厭,就結了。結了之後才發現一堆問題。
若真的都是對他們說「誰叫你要跟他結婚......」云云。
這樣說邏輯上是對啦,但聽起來真的很空虛......(一陣風吹過)
因為太多變數了。僅說聰明才智好了,不是每個人都這麼有智慧的。
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