[請益] 買房男女方出資一定要平等嗎?
小弟是工程師, 目前月薪約7W
女友是老師, 月薪約5W
之前跟女友即是以結婚為前提在交往, 有了買房打算後,
我讓她得知依我的能力只能買大樓, 不希望背太多貸款影響生活品質&夫妻感情,
女友說會一起出資幫忙, 共識是我比女友多出100W
後續與對方家長聊天後, 得知女方家長也會幫些,當然我方家長也會出
矛盾點來了....
與女友母親聊天後給我的訊息, 以為會多出點or借我們讓我們不要貸太多,
起初還提議買大間點(15xxW), 不夠不份可以借我們,
結果如今看好房, 總價<1000W, 要付頭期了, 女方家長卻只拿出100W,
起初男方家長有意拿出2xx,
由於男方家長已退休10幾年, 女方家長自己開工廠未退休,
如今覺得不公平, 男方家長也拿出一樣數目了,
如果女方家長只能拿出這數目, 真慶幸當初沒真的去看15XX價位的,我跟女友不就貸到皮皮
挫, 當然女方願意出資也很感謝了
男方家長認為房子屬於共有財產, 起初也是女友想住透天, 頭期部份男女方應該一樣,
不過女方家長認為男方本來就該比女方多出點,
大家覺得呢????
目前僵持不下中, 如果雙方沒成共識, 男方家長堅決不買了....
我個人看法是畢竟比女友多工作幾年, 自己多出100是應該的, 雙方父母出相同數目,
也不是說不過去 (雖然現在回想起來覺得有點被女方母親框了的感覺),
眼看對保日快到了,自己跟女友都很急,
目前作法是想跟家長那邊說女方已出資一樣, 想請問後續有甚麼流程或
必須自己保管的文件上有白紙黑字寫清楚貸款數目的嗎???
小弟想跟爸媽那先蒙混過去
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