Re: [講座] 親愛的,我要跟別人上床囉!-談開放的性
因為收到了很可愛的報名表,所以想說順便回應跟機會教育一下好惹~
我們收到一封報名表~
裡面劈頭就寫說"怎麼會有這樣的講座"
恩......其實道理很簡單~
因為,有‧人‧需‧要
我們碰過太多在關係裡摸索跌撞的朋友
我們相信有些地方如果有人可以稍微提醒他一下,事情會容易的多
你可以不懂為何有人要這樣經營感情或性
但我想,也很多人不懂為什麼我們要愛同性~
其次,信裡也寫到
"我不排斥單身可開放式 但怎麼宣導有伴侶還開放性 真的很糟糕"
先生~我想你大概搞錯了~
所謂的開放式關係,指的是你要先有"關係"
單身當然想怎麼約就怎麼約,這不叫開放式關係,只能稱為性觀念很開放吧!
開放式關係跟偷吃最大的不同就是"當事人都知情同意"
如果當事人已經點頭且不覺得這是傷害
到底為什麼會要一直覺得誰受傷或誰又被誰背叛??
當然開放一定會遇到問題~很多人也會回說是自找的~
沒錯,所有的關係都是自找的~~~~~
你可能要面對的是公主病、是婆媳問題、是習慣跟價值觀的不合
所以,討論是不是自找的沒有意義,如何解決困境才是真理!!!
這就是為什麼我們會用力的辦講座!
因~為~有~人~想~要~知~道~到~底~該~怎~麼~辦~
最後,他寫了"瞎 連自己是圈內都不苟同"
我想如果你愛去畫圈圈你就去畫吧~
但不要畫了又要怪別人把你畫在外面~
至少我願意站出來說我就是開放式關係,還有大大方方的留ID~
謝謝某某某的批評,讓我們知道還有很大的空間可以努力!!!!!!
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