和朋友討論到為什麼一直單身,
最後他告訴我的結論是:「先有愛、才有性」的想法根本就不切實際。
我有點意外,可能是保守想法的關係,
我總覺得跟一個人有了愛,或至少喜歡了之後,才會與對方發生關係,
但朋友說,這種想法根本太過理想化、太過偶像劇了,
現實生活中沒人在跟你那邊先愛來愛去才上床的!
相反的,
他認為就是要先「試用」看看,在床上合不合,
合了再考慮要不要在一起,
這樣的順序才是現在的圈內主流。
想問的是,真的大家都是先有性、才有愛的嗎?
是我想法太過落伍、跟不上時代了?
難道自己一定要調整為接受先性後愛,
才比較有可能找到在一起的對象嗎?
如果真是這樣,難怪會被朋友罵活該,可能要孤老終生了 (泣)
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