[討論] 大家小時侯有什麼興趣被大人扼殺的嗎?消失
記得自己小時侯
很喜歡表演、唱歌、跳舞
看到電視連續劇、綜藝節目等
都表演起來
那時還很小 可能幼稚園、小學低年級
大人都用嘲諷的語氣說:
「妳唱歌都變調」
「妳粗手粗腳、動作很僵硬很難看,
妳舞蹈沒天份」
「妳表演沒天份,表情好誇張難看。」
久了,漸漸地,我不敢表演了
也相信自己不好、沒天份
長大後聽到很多類似成長背景的朋友討論
都說是因爲台灣的長輩希望孩子好好唸書
覺得那些才藝沒用
所以發現孩子對這些「沒錢途」的事有興趣時
就用貶抑的方式,讓孩子失去興趣
也許我真的對表演沒天份 也許大人是說實話
但長大後,發現其實表演雖然很吃天份
但完全可靠後天學習和練習來增進的
例如我沒有很喜歡炸蝦,
但我很佩服和尊敬她靠努力練習的歌舞
她原本也是沒天份,靠努力達到這境界很不錯
然後我也聽過很多朋友小時侯很愛畫畫
但畫被大人貶低,甚至被撕破都有
以致於永遠都不敢再畫了
有人有相同經驗嗎
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