[閒聊] 說服自己結婚/不婚的理由消失
今年32歲,但因為出社會晚,其實也才離開校園兩年而已。
和男友交往5年,感情還算穩定,也拍了婚紗照,但因為雙方家長見面破局。
所以現在就卡在要不要直接去登記的選項上。
自己有100個不結婚的理由,
唯一一個結婚的理由是,男友想結、想生。
剛好自己的工作也在今年底告一段落。
明年要開始重新找工作,還在思考要轉換什麼跑道。
男友等我從學校畢業等了3、4年,
現在畢業了,又遇到職場空窗期,好像也可以來生個小孩。
但除了男友的意願,我實在找不到說服自己結婚生子的理由。
如果沒有在這個moment結婚生子,也許哪天他遇到哪個爽快結婚生子的女人就走了,
我也只能笑著祝福。
結婚、不結婚好像都有優缺,也是截然不同的人生劇本。
女孩,我想聽聽妳們的想法和妳們的故事。
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