[討論]異性追求的越積極,會越退縮嗎?
魯妹我單身一年多
上一段感情談了快七年
最後對方跟我說沒感覺、不愛了、責任大於愛
於是分手
分手之後
陸續有些異性主動示好
例如:每天早中晚問候、
出遊會買東西送我、
積極邀約吃飯出遊、
主動說要接送
等等
剛開始我會覺得就一般朋友
不以為意
直到對方越來越積極、次數越來越頻繁
我就會開始退縮
開始反感、拒絕回應
對方越積極,我越退縮
但其實我內心是渴望有一個能讓自己放鬆做自己的對象的
也渴望一段穩定的感情
只是不知道為什麼會有這種心態出現
家人說我是不是上一段傷太深,不敢再談戀愛了
朋友說我是不是愛情恐懼症
跪求有類似經驗的鄉民們幫忙分析一下....
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