Re: [難過] 媽媽強烈反同
※ 引述《Fullofyou (隱汐)》之銘言:
: 剛剛跟媽媽因為同志議題大吵一架
: 真的覺得無法理解媽媽的邏輯
: 她先跟我說身邊的誰誰都外遇,誰誰離婚後還交男女朋友,關係很亂
: (離婚後交友哪裡亂,黑人問號???)
: 還有誰的小孩很年輕就偷生小孩
: 然後帶到現在同性戀還要爭取結婚,社會會變得更淫亂,到處都是愛滋病
: 聽到這推論我就傻眼了,忍不住跟她辯論
: 為什麼自己講了一堆異性戀淫亂的案例之後,會成為反對同婚的理由啊?!
: 正是因為異性戀很淫亂,才更沒有立場反對(他們認為很淫亂的)同志結婚啊!
: 然後我媽又說了一大堆,異性戀身上的愛滋病毒都是同志傳給他們的
: 不然異性戀怎麼會自己有愛滋病毒?(傻眼X2)
: 同志會在課本上面教小孩怎麼肛交(傻眼X3)
: 聽了真的很生氣,一一駁斥,我媽就說我書念得多結果變得頭腦不正常
: 心理變態、噁心有病,一堆人身攻擊的言論都出來
: 還說我喜歡同志就去跟他們住一起,染一身性病不要回來
: 真的覺得我媽對同志的仇恨已經到惡毒的程度了
: 真的不懂「傳統」是怎麼把上一輩的腦袋教成這樣子?
: 我很不想跟媽媽吵架,但聽到這些言論我真的很難冷靜!!!
: 大家也有跟家人辯論過類似話題嗎?是怎麼處理呢?
你可能永遠也無法改變你媽的想法
因為上一代的觀念有她的時代背景
也跟她們受到的教育有關
你唯一能作的事情
就是不要成為像他們一樣的人
當你的後代擁抱著更前衛的價值觀時
嘗試去理解他們 就算真的不能認同
也不要因為惱羞就說出不理性的話語
但我覺得那付想教育母親的樣子
很難想像以後會不會也是孩子口中食古不化的老一輩
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