Re: [問題] 開房間的錢該由誰負擔?
老是說為了避免物化女性之嫌而希望各自負
擔費用的心態是真的怕女生被物化還是其實
就是沒錢或不夠愛對方?
如果開房間的費用不旦是你負責且全程無微
不至細心呵護照顧,女生不會覺得有被物化
之餘還因此感念在心,回去幫忙做個家事
煮個好吃的回饋這樣互動不好嗎?
個人經驗遇到的說要均分各項費用理由講得
冠冕堂皇,說得是一口好物化理論,實則就
是軟囊羞澀和心還在前任身上!
你下足功夫付錢又出力出精神去陪伴和經營
只會覺得你很疼對方而已,誰會覺得被物
化?
是說若女生不幫出一半的錢然後自己就立刻
擁有把對方當物品一樣對待的資格,那真的
就快逃吧!
說物化女性所以要均分費用,一種就是真的
窮;一種就是有錢很小氣,花自己省對方。
反正開口要均分的立刻分手不用討論,除非
妳天生熱愛每天跟對方用計算柴米油鹽來增
進感情並精進自己的理財能力為情趣那另當
別論。
重點是避免物化對方的解決方式不止有各付
各的方法,這是最差的解決方式!
請用心付出物質和精神去經營關係避免物化
對方(男與女)。
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