Re: [討論] 能接受另一半和其他異性來往的限度?消失
※ 引述《ap909278410 (DD_CORD)》之銘言:
: 各位安安大家好
: 最近版上很多關於和另一半的種種問題
: 所以想問問各位
: 交往後 能接受另一半和其他異性來往的最大限度
: 大概分這幾種 動機都是以交朋友or維持感情為基礎 (會不會出軌則未知)
: 1 另一半和其他異性單獨出遊或吃飯
: 2 團體出遊或吃飯(有男有女)
: 3 使用交友軟體認識其他異性
: 4 和其他原本就認識的異性聊天
: 5 生活圈向其他異性搭訕
: 哪幾種是各位可以接受的?
: 我的話是2 4
這問題好有趣xD
蠻訝異大家回答都很一致的
不知道這些是大家的實際狀況或是理想狀況?
而且不能接受背後的原因是什麼呢?
若是基於不夠信任而設下這些限制 那這段感情也談得太可悲了
如果是因為自己的不安而禁 那是不是要反思自己為什麼沒辦法有安全感?
因為妳覺得妳選的人會別人男友一樣會用交友軟體出軌?還是妳對自己沒有自信?
兩個人如果都開誠佈公 好好跟對方溝通 跟異性來往怎麼會是什麼問題呢
夠信任的話 彼此交友都會一清二楚吧
夠信任的話 出去跟異性吃飯也無所謂吧
而且怎麼可能交往後 對方生活圈所有的異性都要封殺
除非妳們沒有打算要交往一輩子
不然他朋友應該都會看妳很不爽xDD
而且出社會 跟異性的接觸就很難完全隔絕了吧?還會有不得不的狀況
交友軟體的話也是
對方如果本來就愛交朋友那就讓他去 然後分享心得啊
對方如果是基於出軌的想法才去 那就放他走 下一個會更好
搭訕的話
搭訕不一定是對對方有想交往的興趣吧?
有時候是在一些場合 大家有共同的興趣聚在一起
覺得這個人談吐不錯就找她談論
能夠得到不同資訊 拓展人脈超讚的啊
誰管她異不異性
回去再跟妳分享說今天遇到的一個很厲害的人吧啦吧啦也很有趣
總之仔細想想 沒有什麼禁止對方交友的理由啊
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時間 Fri Dec 28 23:19:07 2012
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