[討論] 有遇過情緒化的主管嗎?已回收
(代po)
我的主管罵人不帶髒字
但是曾經罵過「你念到國外碩士也沒什麼了不起、
如果一個人念到國外碩士連這都做不好...就是腦袋有問題」
她常常雞蛋裡挑骨頭找麻煩、或是朝令夕改、
自己上禮拜說這樣做,這禮拜看你照做了又問你為何這樣做,要那樣做才是對的
當我選擇跟她溝通,他會非常兇、對我咆哮「你不要再跟我提以前了!!!」
「從現在開始我說什麼就是什麼」「只有你最大膽敢跟我辯」
有一次我提出一個問題想溝通,她下一秒就爆氣,
我回「ㄜ...我沒有要跟你吵架的意思」
她「你認為我在跟你吵架?我幹嘛跟你吵架?」
我回「因為你很大聲我會覺得你要吵架」
她「我告訴你,你們這種人我看太多了,我不這樣大聲你是聽不進去!!!!」
(以上都是非常非常大聲的咆哮)
這樣子咆哮,是會讓你感受下一秒他是不是要打過來
工作做了一年多,目前總共有四次這種情形
前兩次我不爭氣默默落淚,主管看到你落淚完全不放在眼裡,
還會更靠近我對我更大聲!
當你想要跟他溝通,我完全是用很平和的語氣要跟他溝通,
可是他就是會覺得你想跟她辯,同樣只會更靠近我對我更大聲
我落淚的原因是我真的很怕被咆哮,我覺得很恐怖,會覺得明明就是你的錯,
憑什麼可以這樣對我大吼大叫?
事後跟朋友提到,朋友罵我絕對不能落淚,
朋友說這樣已經算職場霸凌?朋友說下次有這情形開始要記得錄音,
以備不時之需。
因為我沒有其他被霸凌的經驗,所以來請教大家
該怎麼應對比較好?這樣子恐怖的咆哮算霸凌嗎?
目前還沒有要離職的打算,因為薪水不錯,我的個性是沒辦法被誤會受委屈,朋友說
既然沒有要走就要忍,就算要走也不能嗆聲她或嘗試跟她爭執?
以免以後再同領域被黑。
補充:他罵人時都只有我跟她,因為工作性質關係,我目前沒有其他同事
其他同事在別的縣市,所以我沒辦法瞭解別人是不是這樣,
我只知道他對其他跟他不相關部門的人都很客氣,應該都是在演的
可能算雙面人
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