[閒聊] 太保護自己的人如何討人喜歡?消失
雖然大家都說人要付出才會討人喜歡
我發現我從小就非常保護自己..頭腦清楚到不會讓自己吃一點虧..
好處是因為警覺性夠又超保護自己 所以很難被騙
(可是連交往過的男朋友都說我很難騙..似乎不完全是好事)
缺點是無法跟人交心(不管同性還是異性朋友)..因為潛意識很保護自己..
也不喜歡人太多的地方 雖然我感覺外向 但其實不是很喜歡長時間跟人相處..
雖然一直覺得自己這樣不好
可是隨著時間的成長 我已經快30歲了 覺得這種個性生活愈來愈狹隘 限制住自己
甚至覺得交往過的男友也因為這點覺得我不夠愛他們 (此外..我不接受婚前性)
可是我保護自己的機制卻因年紀增長 加上出社會 根本已經變成反射動作+變本加厲..
真正難過的是..有一任我自認為很喜歡的男友也問我說: 你對我到底付出了什麼?
請問這種個性到了這個年紀可以修正嗎?
實在很不想過這種愈走愈狹隘快逼到死胡同的生活..
謝謝大家:)
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