[討論] 交往次數只會反噬自己消失
對於現代戀愛充滿了疑問…
身旁朋友交過男女友的
幾乎都是3-6個
還有10位數的 現在才25歲
至少問他們為甚麼會分手?
有些說不適合
有些說不想這麼早定下來
有些說沒未來沒安全感
有些說 他不是最後一個
有些說 遇到比原本更好的
於是隨著這樣的分手理由
交往次數隨著年紀增加
因為看得多
所以標準及眼光也越來越高
直到發現 根本沒有辦法找到這樣的人
你開始回想 前面幾任
你突然放下那緊握不放的標準
寬鬆之後 才發現那前面幾任的某位
有接近你的標準
為時已晚 為事已逝
一切都人去樓空
有句台語說的好
“三選四選 選到一個賣龍眼的”
這句話不是說賣龍眼不好
但早期俗諺意指 選伴侶不要太挑
挑到最後
你只會選到跟自己想像的對象差異太大
畢竟你錯過了
一旦錯過
老天爺不會還你
你只能選擇降低標準求全
或許
我們該問問內心
究竟是在跟自己的想像談戀愛
還是跟戀人談戀愛
實際上
我們總以為 “下任會更好”
這樣的觀念迷思
最後
會使得自己走向濫情及空洞的茫惘
各位認同嗎?
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