請問有女孩們在職場上被主管追求嗎?如何全身而退?
是這樣的,他不是我的直屬主管,是全公司最高層的長官。
他大我16歲。我生日那天他突然叫我進他辦公室,送我他親筆寫的生日卡片。
讓我有點感動,但也僅止於此。
沒想到接下來的發展令我出乎意料,他開始用賴跟我報告他的生活近況,
也會偷偷追蹤我的臉書公開文。
終於我覺得怪怪的,開始不理他,他竟然就傳賴直接告白了。
我嚇壞了,由於我們單位文化很注重職場倫理,
為此我苦思幾天,寫了一封措辭委婉的賴拒絕他,
他回傳沒關係,我們可以做朋友。並要求我不要再稱呼他長官,以兄妹相稱,
開始稱呼我是OO(我的名字)小妹,自稱自己是O(姓氏)大哥,
我心裡想說他是長官,要給對方面子,不要弄得太難堪,要給對方台階下。
後來我們相約喝咖啡,會喝咖啡的原因是他說他打算要離開了,另謀高就。
希望在離開前能和我喝一杯咖啡。
我心軟了,但為了保險起見,傳訊跟他講清楚,這不是約會,
只是單純的朋友聚會,他也同意了。
但喝完咖啡後,他竟送我一小罐相思豆,裡面有小紙條。
我大驚不妙,發現他動機不純。於是我又傳訊給他再度表明自己對他無意,
請他不要再做出追求的動作。
他回傳是我誤會了,他並沒有這個意思,只是單純的長輩朋友的關心而已。
(小紙條的內容我不敢打開來看,也不想打開來看)
後來,他隔了一個禮拜都沒傳賴給我,我以為他死心了,正在慶幸之餘,
沒想到上個禮拜又開始連發訊息,跟我報告他的生活近況、心情感言,
這次我學乖了,一律已讀不回。
沒想到他自問自答、噓寒問暖,我從一開始的忍耐忽略,漸漸地開始嫌煩
到現在只要一看到他傳來的訊息就情緒大受影響,希望他不要再糾纏我了!!
感覺這個長官相當固執,即使明確拒絕他了,
他還是可以用朋友之名行追求之實,請他不要再這樣,他仍可以為自己辯解。
終於,我今天下定決心封鎖他的賴和臉書,
但也擔心自己的飯碗會不會不保?
想到明天上班有可能會遇到他,就覺得很煩,
更害怕他靠近我,故意跟我多說幾句話,
偏偏他是最高層的主管,我不能躲得太明顯,業務上也必須向他報告
為了避免跟他獨處一室發生意外,如果有業務報告,
我都直接向我的直屬主管(女性)報備,並拜託她陪同。
請問有類似經驗的女性朋友可否告訴我要注意哪些?
我要如何保護自己的人身安全,又不至於丟掉自己的工作,謝謝!
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