[閒聊] 夫妻教養會同調嗎?
看板Preschooler作者ragirl (modification)時間10年前 (2014/07/14 00:16)推噓29(29推 0噓 91→)留言120則, 25人參與討論串1/3 (看更多)
我不知道該po在婚姻版還是這裡...
剛和老公吵架了..
起因是我們在討論最近台灣學生在國際生奧得金的新聞,
其中一個學生的媽媽說他兒子兩歲半開始學認字、注音及英語,
小學前就已學完小一至小六的課程....
然後,我老公就開始爆氣了...
老公認為我讓孩子太快樂了,導致孩子像大雄一樣,每天只想玩..
都已經五歲多了,字也不認得幾個,不會自己閱讀,只會聽我說故事..
我選的幼稚園太快樂,將來上小學會挫折巴拉巴拉之類的..
又說我們家孩子的教育都是我在主導,他也不想管,就等著看以後小孩會變怎樣...
因為在娘家,怕繼續吵下去會引發我娘煩人的關心,也不想浪費電話費..
所以沒跟他多說就掛了..
但掛上電話還是很生氣,我不認為自己的教育理念有錯,但卻覺得當媽的真倒楣!
原來小孩如果長大表現不好,當爸的可以在旁邊說風涼話:"妳看妳怎麼帶小孩的?"
好像自己完全無關一樣!
不知道夫妻之間對孩子的教育理念核心都相同嗎?
如何找到共識?
我甚至有點賭氣地想,乾脆肚裡的老三就全權交給他去教育好了..
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