[討論]男生喜歡獨立還是嬌柔的女生
看板MenTalk作者Syllacon (dreamcatcher)時間9年前 (2014/09/17 22:20)推噓61(62推 1噓 77→)留言140則, 73人參與討論串1/10 (看更多)
男版首po 請見諒
原po是個比較獨立的女生(算懂事),成長的環境和經歷讓我習慣自己的事自己完成、
能照顧好自己,甚至有心事都不常跟別人講,可以自己慢慢想通。
我不喜歡依(麻)賴(煩)別人,如果能做到一般女生做不到的事情就會覺得很有成就感,
如果要靠別人幫忙才能完成,就會覺得自己很沒用。(天啊這根本是逞强吧)然後理
智到有點誇張,已經忘了多久沒哭過。
可能是因爲這種個性像男生,一直以來都沒有人追 囧
有分別和一些男生聊過:
1. 高中喜歡過的男生有對象,問他喜歡那女生什麽,結果他回我因爲那女生比較嬌弱,
感覺需要人照顧,會讓人心疼。聽到這我就知道我跟那男生不可能,決定放手。
2. 跟哥哥閑聊,他説男生就是要有肩膀、想照顧女生,他自己就是自尊心作祟,會
想跟嬌柔的女生在一起,喜歡女生對他依賴、需要他的感覺。
3. 跟學長聊天,他説我條件其實很好,就是如果可以不要那麽獨(逞)立(强),
學會放下一些不必要的堅持、多讓別人幫忙、敞開心胸一定交得到男友。
4. 也是學長,跟他聊到關於我太獨立的個性讓我一直沒什麽追求者,他竟然說
他寧願女生獨立,因爲自己很懶,女生獨立就可以省點事,甚至照顧他。我蠻驚訝,
因爲我第一次聽到男生說喜歡女生獨立。
不夠敞開心胸這點我承認,但對於相熟的朋友我還是能聊心事、或深入的話題。
該有的體貼、諒解、禮貌,我還是會有。衹是我未必是那種小鳥依人、很黏、
會撒嬌、可愛的女生。
身邊有認識朋友,沒有長的很正,但可能很懂得怎麽跟男生相處,工具人就不少。
但我就是不喜歡占別人便宜,不會招工具人,可能有點太公事公辦,男生覺得沒
給他希望就沒追我吧。
當然我也明白幾個朋友、家人不能代表所有男生的想法。
目前對愛情是沒有很大的渴求,衹是偶爾想起有點酸酸的,難道我太獨立就活該
沒人要嗎,所以想問問看男生們的想法。
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