[抒發]在這現實的社會 身為男人的原罪
小弟(?)目前32y
月薪約53K 目前存款約70W
前陣子去交往了五年多的女友家提親 打算年底結婚
女方家長答應了
其實我心裡很感激
因為女方家境比我家好很多
所以女方說結婚是男生的事 舉凡婚紗照、蜜月、有的沒的東西都是男方要負責cover
我都沒啥意見
可是最近又得知女方媽媽一直在問我女友:妳再好好考慮清楚,沒車、沒房,妳確定
要嫁給他?憑妳的條件可以找到更好的...。然後又覺得我很落漆之類的。
其實我可以體會女方媽媽的心態...
因為當初女友她哥娶親時,她們家就幫他們準備好房子、車子
所以她可能認為我家應該也要比照辦理...
但我家就真的沒啥錢啊 我媽已經退休了 還肯主動幫我出金飾10幾萬 我已經很感恩了
而我的存款之所以會那麼少 也是因為剛出社會那幾年
我爸還在時 住院臥病在床 每個月要拿錢補貼家裡
而且又不是剛開始起薪就有53K..
我女友的確條件不錯 月入50幾K 也很挺我(沒有她的堅持 她爸媽應該看不上我)
但是知道這件事 心裡還是有些失落 想不到我努力了這麼多年 在別人眼中 還是個魯蛇
只因為沒車、沒房...
出社會這麼多年... 多少也知道社會的現實面.. 唉 也許只能怪自己不夠努力吧~
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