[抒發] 感情就是她媽的投報率最低的東西
不好意思標題不太文雅
但我現在她媽這樣覺得
看完一連串澳洲打工的討論串和自身經歷
我真的覺得感情就是投資報酬率最低的東西,傻子才會全心放在感情上
兩個人要能夠長久的再一起,需要有相同的"共識",不能差太遠的時空背景
及生活圈,才能穩穩當當的長久在一起。
但 人性 是經不起考驗的
能夠穩當再一起的條件是生命中不能有任何的"爆點",所謂"爆點"指的是出國打工
遊學阿、其中一方遇到條件比另一半好超多的對象阿、另一半重大傷病、被撿屍~~等等....
這世界上的誘惑太多,你我都不是聖人,只要其中一方遇上以上的"爆點"
真的很難不被戴綠帽。到時候還是會被痛苦的情緒折磨到不行
我雖然相信這世界上一定有真愛,一定有那種不離不棄不會背叛對方的愛情
但--- 我們 ---- 身為一個正常人 ,真的能夠把感情賭在那百分之一真愛的機率嘛?
亦或是賭在我們的另一半身上不會發生任何的"爆點"的機率呢?
所以說,男人阿,還是要以事業為重,至少....事業不會因為哪天一想不開就突然背叛你
一定有蛛絲馬跡可循
但感情阿....唉...說變就變,不管是結婚前、亦或是結婚後
結果 人 到頭來還是寂寞的
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其實也不是沒有在提升自我價值啦
只是在悲哀這世界的愛情
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※ 編輯: dufo 來自: 118.166.96.17 (09/30 01:10)
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我文章闡述重點是交到之後持續的愛情關係,並非討論能不能交到女友或想不想交
交到很簡單,但交到真愛很難。我文章中也沒有批評女性,是指兩性都可能會有的風險
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※ 編輯: dufo 來自: 118.166.96.17 (09/30 01:30)
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是阿,交過六個才下這樣的結論
※ 編輯: dufo 來自: 118.166.96.17 (09/30 01:31)
※ 編輯: dufo 來自: 118.166.96.17 (09/30 01:34)
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