[討論] 哥哥要結婚,母親不開心…該怎麼調解??
如題
各位版大好
最近哥哥準備要結婚了
正常來講應該是喜事
但是在我們家
卻變成像是比喪事還慘…
在第一次雙方家長見面時
親家母就先"落眉角"給我媽
說他們家的女人從來就沒有在進廚房的
又說婚禮簡單就好
要低調但不隨便(好深的一句話)
婚後第一天就要搬出來住blabla
就一副怕自己女兒受委屈的樣子
而我媽就示長輩希望能先在家裡住個一些時日
再搬出去
親家母則回說:「長輩就穿的漂漂亮亮來給新人祝福就好了!」
現在我哥就跟我媽為了住家裡還住外面的事在爭吵
每次吵完就會有一個來跟我說怎樣怎樣
這個講完又換另一個進來怎樣怎樣
實在搞的我裡外不是人
現在只要講到這件事
大概都是我媽淚流滿面收場
(我媽非常的傳統而且非常的保守)
認為兒子不孝
還沒結婚就已經被對方洗腦了
也認為結完婚一定要在家裡住個一段日子再搬出去住
(沒有強迫一定要永遠住在一起
但希望新人能在家裡住一陣子
大約一個多月
把喜氣帶給家裡)
而我哥則是希望能立刻搬出去
現在兩邊完全都不讓步…
各位有結過婚的版友們
可以給點建議
好讓我去跟我媽或者是我哥溝通一下嗎??
因為每兩三天就來一次這樣的戲碼讓我覺得壓力很大…
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