[討論] 睡覺會不會抱著女友入睡?
跟女友交往兩年多,以前不知是因為住的地方床小
還是還處在熱戀期的緣故,都會抱著女友入睡
但後來搬到別處,變成雙人床了
結果睡覺時女友就不給抱了,她是說床那麼大,幹嘛還要抱在一起睡
而且如果要抱著,我好睡,她就不好睡了
我不知道自己這樣奇不奇怪,但每次就寢時總會碰到這個問題
然後就會開始盧。但不管勉強讓我抱的時間是長還短
最後還是會要我睡旁邊點,不要黏著她
(是不能抱、不能摸、手腳都不能碰到,不然她會不好睡)
撇開睡覺時,其他時間抱她都沒這個問題
我也不是自私只顧自己的人,當然不願意要她硬是配合我
但連手腳都不能碰到,我真的很難入睡
也許潛意識裡的我是想要尋求某種安全感也不一定...
有幾次我還感嘆地跟她說:
我寧願睡單人床,因為這樣就可以像以前一樣抱在一起睡覺了
唉,有人跟我一樣有這種困擾的嗎?
我真的不想強迫,而且這種事也強迫不來
但她似乎也不願試著去改,至少讓我可以摸著手還是什麼的...
(PS 我不要改抱娃娃睡,那沒辦法替代)
還請各位推薦方法改善,或者經驗分享囉~ 謝謝
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