[閒聊] 隔壁版的老爸外遇討論串
這是純脆上班前沒重點的閒聊文。
這二天隔壁友版討論老爸外遇的文章很熱門,
裏面有不少驚悚的故事情節,
但是老實說對我這種跟爸媽感情不深的人來說,
對裏面一些強烈的情緒的描述,
實在有點像 "火星上的人類學家" 裏面主角在看其他世界的感覺。
友版上故事大多是老爸很爛找小三,
老媽為了 錢/小孩/爭一口氣/家庭和協 (那是啥...?) 種種的理由,
所以隱忍、接著把氣反射在女兒身上、有時還要女兒接受這樣的老爸之類的。
然後當女兒的一開始會跟媽媽一起厭惡老爸、接著覺得分擔媽媽負面情緒很痛苦,
最後自己也崩潰等等的。
看完這些故事,反射性在我腦中的疑惑是...
為什麼不跟家裏斷了關係呢? 父母的問題給他們自己解決啊...
老爸打電話叫女兒幫忙寫情書給小三? 就恩恩阿阿混過去啊。
老媽逼女兒搬回家一起承受家中的負面情緒? 就說工作忙打哈哈呀。
我是真的很不能理解...
我自己爸媽沒對我不好,老爸有沒有外遇過我一點都不關心所以不知道。
但可能是我天生沒血沒淚還是怎樣,
(沒血沒淚四個字是我老婆跟我說的,因為我常不能理解她跟家裏的一些矛盾糾葛)
我沒辦法跟他們住一起,就連幾周一次的問候電話都不知道該說什麼。
所以我真的沒辦法瞭解那些家裏超誇張的父母,
卻還緊緊抓著關係不切的人的理由是什麼。
不過另一說是女生天生就心軟而且向著自己家裏,
所以這年頭還是生女兒比較好,
不然生了像我這種天生沒什麼家族情感的兒子真的是虧大了...
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其實推文跟我看過的現實案例也差不多,
父母感情出問題,女兒都會乖乖的夾在中間,
倒是男生很少聽過因為父母任何一方搞外遇就有強烈的情緒激動的。
所以其實我挺想給友版那些女生一個建議...
學男生狠下心當個不孝的女兒,人生就會輕鬆很多。
(PS1: 這話如果真的去隔壁版推,大概又會說沒血沒淚沒心肝了吧。= =)
(PS2: 要生還是生女兒好...)
※ 編輯: meowyih 來自: 210.61.247.38 (09/26 13:15)
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社會科學講的是統計,我這篇跟社會科學的關係是什麼? @_@a
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