Re: 如何改善社交能力
Be non-apologetic for being you. If you personally agree with traditional
Asian values such as hard-work, being considerate, or being respectful of
elders, then don’t be shy about it! Don’t jeopardise your authenticity in
order to win someone else’s approval.
Two things wind up happening when you are unable to accept your own identity
— you either become depressed, or turn into a hater, or both. My advice is
to never ever compare yourself to others. Don’t hate on your white friends
for stealing Asian baby girls. Don’t hate on girls who reject you and say, “
Sorry, I’m not into Asians”.
Focus on what you can change. Focus on things you are grateful for. If you
consistently work, day-in-day-out, on accepting every part of you, on being
ever more authentic, then you’ll find that most women are totally fine with
you being Asian, as long as you are too.
剛剛看到的
給各位社交障礙的人參考
窩也在學習中
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