[問卦] 異性戀男要如何追求正T?消失
如題,各位鄉民早安
小弟的兩個妹妹都是女性特質的拉子
大妹又熱衷同志維權運動
因為大妹的這層關係,小弟得以認識許多女同志
最近小弟認識大妹在同志維權運動圈的朋友,
對方是個中性打扮的T,大我3歲
長得很像劣化版<愛上哥們>裡的賴雅妍,
只要她願意做女性打扮,應該也是氣質OL輕熟女
小弟自從上個月認識她後就對她戀戀不忘
由於我們家父母觀念傳統的關係,基於不希望香火中斷的出發點
小弟的爸媽在知道兩個妹妹都是拉子後就一直想把她們掰直
也一直逼目前還單身、快30歲的小弟去相親,搞得我們三兄妹都壓力很大
小弟跟妹妹們討論過了,既然我喜歡那位正T
只要我能將她追到手,這樣我們都能在父母壓力下解套
我不會再一直被逼去相親,爸媽也不會念茲在茲的想掰直兩個妹妹
所以雖然妹妹認為我掰直對方的機率不高,還是願意支持我
只是兩個妹妹只能提供女同間彼此追求的意見,我又沒追過正T
實在不知道如何下手
請問各位,作為異性戀的小弟我,要如何追到這位正T呢?
另外,補充一下,其實小弟的媽媽在年輕時候也是T
但在民風保守的民國70年代,她因為她的性向承受了很大的壓力
最後小弟的媽媽因為受不了
快三十歲的時候終於向傳統屈服,草草找個男人結婚(就是我爸)
因為是匆忙結婚,婚前對彼此認識不多
加上我媽對異性興趣其實還是不大,婚後和我爸爭執不斷
即使生了我們三兄妹也一樣,
我媽婚後還是常常做中性打扮,個性也維持女強人性格
小弟常常在想,或許是我受到媽媽影響的關係
短髮、中性打扮,但仍保有女人味、有著精明幹練女強人性格的女性,
一直是對我最具吸引力的女性類型
只是這類型的女性有高比例是T
由於小弟爸媽的婚姻並不融洽,小弟心裡很明白
如果對方沒意願,硬要掰直對方,是非常不尊重人的行為
就算勉強交往,也只是重蹈我爸媽的覆轍
可是,小弟就是喜歡上了,沒有辦法
PS小弟我很認真在問,請不要回答讓她戴假屌肛,這種戲謔式的回答
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