[問題] 請問女方要求的費用合理嗎?
各位版友好(代友po文)
小妹明年要結婚,最近在討論結婚事宜,
目前預計簡單儀式+午宴,費用除了媽媽支援女方宴客桌外(約25w),其餘我和隊友自己
平分。
而媽媽根據親戚哥哥姐姐這兩年經驗提出小聘36萬,包含餅錢、婚紗、新秘、壓桌、以及
金
飾2兩(這媽媽很堅持要有)等婚禮必需(以上費用目前30w),就算有剩也都給我們。
但對方家長覺得36萬太誇張,並覺得他們被要求得太多...連我們花錢看日子,他媽還發
脾氣覺得浪費錢,更覺得儀式都不需要,宴客就好..
(難道是台北和鄉下差很大嗎T^T)
原本沒差的我,也被搞得有點不開心,覺得被輕忽(玻璃心?),但還不敢跟媽媽說,怕
她會傷心。
請問版友們媽媽這樣要求合理嗎?
以及可以怎樣跟雙方父母溝通呢?
謝
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※ 編輯: happy299 (36.226.162.163), 04/11/2017 22:49:59
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其實是女方是鄉下啦,不過理解你的意思
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了解,媽媽是想說她在婚禮上也付出差不多的金額(不過女方桌錢本來就女方自己出齁)
※ 編輯: happy299 (36.226.162.163), 04/11/2017 23:04:41
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除了女方桌外,扣掉聘金,其他我們平分~
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2.會回金飾給男生 3.了解^^ 4.我們沒有要家長出的意思 5.因爲訂婚也在同一天,媽媽
認為要謹慎,是我和隊友去看的
謝謝你這麼熱心指教~
※ 編輯: happy299 (36.226.162.163), 04/11/2017 23:16:10
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Q__Q 要怎麼溝通啊
※ 編輯: happy299 (36.226.162.163), 04/11/2017 23:18:21
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※ 編輯: happy299 (36.226.162.163), 04/11/2017 23:19:59
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