[問題] 關於包紅包的問題想請版友評斷一下
哈囉大家午安!
小弟有個問題想請大家幫我評斷一下...
故事是這樣的
小弟的一個朋友B女,在喝喜酒時
包給新人的紅包"攜伴兩千元"
地點在"晶宴"
然後某天他和新人聊天時,意外聊到這段(圖片為他們聊天截圖)
http://ppt.cc/XbUq
http://ppt.cc/gRJh
http://ppt.cc/sATi
http://ppt.cc/m29k
因為我有跟他講她包太少
而她提到
"其實我也沒有覺得自己都是對的,
一個巴掌拍不響,也許我真的包太少,
讓人虧大!畢竟每個人想法不一樣,不是每個人都能不計較紅包這種事!
可是,我得申明,
我的出發點絕對不會是想讓人虧錢,
正常人不會這樣故意,我也考慮過彼此的交情,
也考慮過她就此不會再回台灣,所以回包的事壓根不用想.
我為那朋友付出很多,甚至婚禮前也幫了她,
那時我還在加班,臨時幫她改喜帖!
雖然是小事,但緊急時刻找的到人幫忙,真的是件難求的事!
我知道這無法相提並論,但人情債更珍貴不是嗎?
重點,那位朋友的個性大家都知道,
非常現實,常常一連絡人就是要人幫她忙!
之後就了無音訊!
也許有些人覺得,既然我們都知道她的個性,幹嘛還要理她?
我個人的心態是,有人需要我幫忙,跟我開口我覺對量力而為,
幫助人的出發點不在於交情深厚,那只是一個參考值.
最後這麼一PO才知道,原來我不是第一個被罵的人,
有朋友說,她攤開禮金簿一個一個查,一個個罵,
但重視的是[心意]還是[金額],每個人都心裡有數.
但我還是覺得他包太少了
所以我想要了解一下各位對這件事情的看法?
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※ 編輯: zxcvctk 來自: 118.163.56.217 (02/10 16:29)
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