[請益] 該不該借錢給朋友?
一位大學朋友A因為失業的關係 目前生活無以為繼 需要向我周轉十萬塊
用來繳納積欠幾個月的房租 以及未來兩三個月的生活費
十萬塊對我來說不算大錢 原本打算借他
但想了一晚 卻不禁猶豫起來
我的社會經驗告訴我 絕大多數人 向你借錢的時候是你孫子 要他還錢的時候你成了他孫子
之前 就曾經聽某位向他人借錢未還的朋友B說(不是現在向我借錢的這一位):
" 反正我有錢就還你啦!又不是不還,你現在一直催有什麼用?"
想起這樣的人 自己真是不敢借任何人錢
A知道我的猶豫 卻說 沒關係 真正的朋友本來就很難得
搞得似乎我不借錢就是見死不救 是假的朋友
身邊有些人是從來不借人錢的 也有些人曾經向朋友借錢 一旦不借 就認為對方不是朋友
我其實不是這麼在乎這十萬元
我真正的擔心是失去友情
不借 被罵無情無義
借了 擔心不還 更擔心食髓知味一直來借
各位社會經驗豐富的大大 可以給我些建議嗎?
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謝謝大家熱心建議啦!
其實我最害怕的不是錢拿不回來
假如他就是失業沒辦法還我 我也不會有任何負面感受
我是擔心看到 他也變成朋友B的那種態度 甚至有錢不還.........
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簽約等於翻臉啦 大大~~
※ 編輯: TerryGou 來自: 111.240.63.66 (09/16 12:26)
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