Re: [請益] 交到女友後,覺得自己不再提升了
這個問題,看到現在都沒有合己意的想法出來。
其實應該說有,但自刪了...
目前所有回文,都是偏向:我鬆懈了,是因為我會關心人之類的分心
或許符合女方,或是本版版旨,但我不太爽就是了。
所以就發個文跟各位討論討論
諸位,觀看此文的同時,我想問個問題:
"你有自己的人生目標嗎?"
楊過的人生目標是跟姑姑在一起,
所以他跟小龍女在一起後就全劇終了。
那你呢? 交個伴侶,人生目標就此結束?如果不是,那下一步呢?
我是有一個人生目標的人,
(但是目標就不在此告訴各位了,
如果十幾年後我達成並且有印象,或許會回來告訴各位。)
正因為我有目標,所以我有著堅持,不管當時我是否有女友,
我都不會放棄前進所需要的技能,
因此目前我的進度條已經推進了40%,或許會有人說那你的家人女友不就被冷落?
那我也老實的告訴你們,他們都願意接受。
我認為如果你的家人女友有大愛的話,他們必定是願意放你出去追尋人生,
而不是把你鎖在身旁照顧才能稱為愛。
因此,回到"交到女友後,覺得自己不再提升了"這個議題,
你的人生是否有目標,對於目標的熱情專注程度,
將決定你是否會繼續提升,
當然,如果你將目標放在女友家人的互動,
在這上面花大量的時間,理論上你也會得到你想要的提升。
幾十年過後,不感到後悔,那將是真正人生圓滿,
我坦承我做不到就是了。
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