Re: [請益] 怎麼才不會一錯再錯,我很討人厭
請不要開【自我毀滅模式】,明明知道不對,硬要幹下去,現在結果也如你預知呈現,
不要說你心裡沒有預感會越來越差,你做了那麼多只是為了對方多點回應,結果就是
這樣,什麼都沒有而且越來越糟。
就像魔戒裡面那個咕嚕,心理完完全全被戒指所影響,
得不到又抗拒不了,只能想盡辦法想要看緊對方,以為自己"為對方多做一點"
就有機會得到。 殊不知,對方完全已經看透你的心哩,對你只有嫌惡
在感情裡要成長的過程很痛苦,但我告訴你,如果你不成長,未來十年二十年
你都會獨自一人繼續玩這種"悲愴淒慘浪漫愛情悲劇"
對了,你未來遇到所有的對象都會像這個女生一樣反應
我保證絕對不會有人會轉頭給予你一絲憐憫。
你,就當作是壯士斷腕吧。
這個女生絕對、完全沒可能再接受你了,任何方法都行不通,就算消失十年改變自己
也不可能,她只會把你當作恐怖的夢饜或悲慘的遭遇跟自己的男朋友或老公說
因為你已經完全摧毀了你們之間所有的感覺
你完全欠缺同理心,也從來沒為女生想過,你很執著在自己的索取,
你想要被愛想到發瘋,所以根本沒想過對方的感受
要放下的第一件事情
就是先體會到你帶給對方的困擾,如果你有點羞恥心,那種自以為是的浪漫很快
最轉為羞愧的,我一點都不相信你是真的想要賠償手機,那只不過只是想跟對方
多點互動的僥倖想法罷了
如果你有其他"交情夠好"的異性朋友,問問他們吧
你還要裝做自己是大情聖道什麼時候?
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