[求助] 女友因為我愛爬山不開心消失
我大概三個月會爬一次山
一次都是5-7天長時間的行程
之後更會安排一次兩個月的海外攀登
而我女友比較沒興趣 但也一起去過一些簡單的行程
但我爬山經驗越來越多 天數也在增加
她覺得沒辦法跟我一起去很沮喪
也覺得她沒辦法跟我一起討論很多關於爬山的事
然後有時候會覺得我愛爬山勝過愛她
因此不開心
我目前的做法是除了爬大山行程
也安排一起去一些簡單的郊山跟戶外的旅行
也會分享我在山上的所見所聞
而且我覺得我之所以能一直去爬山也是因為有家人有她的支持
才能有信念在那種智障環境努力活著
當然這些我都有跟她說
也說了我真的很愛她 也很樂意跟她分享爬山的事
但是她好像還是有點沮喪
請問在這樣興趣差異很大的情況
我不想放棄爬山 她也不想我因為她放棄爬山
但她總會覺得沒辦法真的參與我生活的一大部分
這種情況有什麼解決辦法
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我們幾乎每天都會見面 吃個飯什麼的
安排爬山也盡量挑她也有自己行程的時候例如她的家庭出國
山上沒訊號也是一點
我是不是要做什麼 才能讓她放心的讓我去爬山?
※ 編輯: IYUSUNGU (223.139.196.46), 06/14/2018 10:00:34
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這個有因為她喜歡看書 所以我們約定一個月各自看一本書 然後分享心得 但我正被論文
荼毒 所以我都報paper給她聽XD
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喔哦哦喔喔喔喔!! 有點道理,但比較希望溝通 不想放棄爬山QQ
※ 編輯: IYUSUNGU (223.139.196.46), 06/14/2018 10:19:11
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有可能是這樣 那該怎麼溝通比較適合
※ 編輯: IYUSUNGU (223.139.196.46), 06/14/2018 10:21:17
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謝謝大家的建議,已經有發後續溝通完的結果了喔
※ 編輯: IYUSUNGU (223.138.132.117), 06/15/2018 09:44:34
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