[求助] 工作不順就遷怒的另一半消失
想詢問大家要怎麼改變這樣的另一半
他常常因為工作忙或不順利就產生負面情緒
我覺得這樣很合理
他如果跟我抱怨,我也覺得很OK,也很樂意聽他說
但是他是把負面情緒出在我身上
例如,他工作忙,我問他要不要一起吃完飯再繼續
他就會口氣很差地說「事都沒做完吃什麼吃!」
我怕他工作過程會餓,拿一些東西給他,他也會推開說「不要煩我啦」
當然我也可以完全不理他餓不餓,但他一忙可以連續四五個小時都不吃東西
我還是沒辦法放著不管
或者是他工作不順的期間,不管我說什麼他都聽得很不耐煩,
愛回不回,或是回得很嗆,有時候連一起走路都會莫名地說「快一點好不好」
但我明明就沒有很慢,就跟平常一樣的速度
但他工作忙的時候就會藉題發揮,找很多小事情兇我
他在忙的時候我已經盡量不去干擾他了,但也不可能完全不跟他說話呀
只是一跟他說話就會像碰到刺蝟一樣,被兇得很委屈
他覺得他只要事情解決後就可以恢復正常
那在他「不正常」的期間,我除了忍就沒有別的辦法嗎?
前面看到有神人在協助解決「總是負面回應的另一半」
不曉得能不能釣出神人幫我改變愛遷怒的另一半......
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可以不要腦補嗎?四五個小時我可能就跟他說那一次話,這樣叫「一直打斷」嗎?
我內文已經說我盡量不干擾他了,但男女朋友一定會有需要聯絡的時候
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