[求助] 被劈的心裡陰影怎麼消除?
被劈也快對年了
問我現在對前女的感覺,真的只有覺得噁心
在一起時不斷的與人曖昧卻又留屎尾讓我發現
直到某一次曖昧她勇敢的劈出她那不長的腿,對她的感覺從愛慢慢變成恨,甚至又覺得她
很可悲
現在我剛開始一段新戀情,真要比較個性也贏過前任
但每每有共同朋友對我抱怨前任待人的鴕鳥心態與對任何負面事情的避重就輕時,我還是
會壓抑不住怒火的劈哩啪啦幹了一整篇
女友說我這樣是沒完全放下前任
但我對前任只充滿幹意啊!
是我對"放下"的定義太寬鬆嗎?
還是這種陰影很難消除,所以時不時的穩定發作??
我好想把前任的記憶抽掉,煩死了!!
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然後談起牠們,會不自覺越講越大聲
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我想如果我繼續這樣,現任也會變成前任
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我不是seafood,所以還會覺得很幹
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我會的,而且我努力中
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不敢說沒被阻礙,但我已經恢復正常生活,而且越來越順。(前任帶賽?)
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這就是我現在很擔心的事,一個不小心搞不好現任變前任了
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我得確定牠過得不好,我才會安心
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謝謝您的寶貴意見,下一位!!!
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恨到想超度牠呢
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沒錯!!! 打死蟑螂都會擦同一個命案現場三次了,更何況是個婊
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※ 編輯: gjgood (39.9.105.43), 09/14/2017 19:29:18
※ 編輯: gjgood (39.9.105.43), 09/14/2017 19:43:37
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