[心情] 養寵物是療癒 還是負擔
前陣子女友打算養貓
我是不太想啦 雖然貓很可愛
但照顧起來就是有種被綁住的感覺
但女友堅持他考慮過了
她真的很想要養 我就讓貓加入了我們的小套房
照顧跟花費我也同意跟他一起負擔
剛開始就是整個世界都繞著貓打轉
覺得好可愛好療癒
到現在貓養了六個月
女友已經開始覺得煩
化妝貓會一直煩 睡覺時間又一直在玩
上次女友生病讓她不能好好休息就大崩潰了
她開始覺得自己那時候沒想好 很後悔
有這種想法 覺得自己很不負責任
我好幾次都唸她 要養就要負責到底
要有耐心 不要覺得貓是負擔
她就開始逃避 傳賴的話就是搞消失
很想好好安慰她
但又覺得她活該 應該好好負責
現在搞到我們相處時只要貓煩到她
就會很生氣很躁鬱
我該怎麼解決呢....
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20了 她是蠻幼稚的..
※ 編輯: controlker (36.229.215.153), 06/18/2017 05:15:33
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唉真的
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我也是對貓有感情了 會繼續養的
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我不太明白這為什麼會扯到8+9 您是不是太濫用這種詞了
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不會棄養 希望大家能提供解決方式謝謝
※ 編輯: controlker (36.229.215.153), 06/18/2017 05:32:48
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謝謝
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好希望女友能改變心態...
※ 編輯: controlker (49.218.3.103), 06/18/2017 05:52:47
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是的QQ
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