[討論] 對男人而言,前女友是什麼樣的存在?消失
我男友有個曾經交往三年的前女友
個性、身材、臉蛋都很好
甚至過去他們在親密行為上也互動良好
但男方因為一些個人因素最後提了分手
上面這些是我和男友交往前
某次心血來潮,好奇心趨使下問到的
沒想到卻成為現在揮之不去的陰影嗚嗚;_;
因為我不管是個性、臉蛋還是身材都沒有對方好
(是那種對方E我A,對方正妹我普妹的區別)
相處上也常常有不愉快
使我內心總是覺得比不上對方
雖然男友從來沒有在言語上把我和前任比較
也常常希望我不要想那麼多
但雖然這樣說,男友心裡應該還是會比較的吧?
畢竟根本天壤之別....
也許因為自卑心態
我提起他前女友的次數
甚至比他還多(他幾乎不提)
此外每次我提起,又會因為自卑而弄得自己很沮喪難過
男友也從會耐心安慰我,到生氣不理我了QQ
(他討厭我亂想 或不喜歡自己)
我不知道該怎麼辦,曾經以為時間會淡化一切
但交往至今也一年半了
我還是擺脫不了前女友的陰影嗚嗚嗚
雖然男友說,過去了就是過去了
然而對男人而言,前女友真的是這樣能輕易放下的角色嗎?
又在什麼樣的情況下才會選擇條件差這麼多對象φ(。_。*) ?
P.S. 我們沒有%%%所以可以確定不是為了%%%
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