[求助] 怎麼應付進度太快的追求消失
魯妹不想再魯了,近來比較常透過各種交友管道認識新朋友。
上周和一個網友出來吃飯後,他就開始不斷表現好感。我們這幾天很常聯絡,維持一個整
天互傳line的情況,他說想多陪我,他目前剛考完律師考試在等結果,所以很閒。
因為住得也不遠,這幾天都約午餐或宵夜時段。見第二次面他就要求我抱他一下,第三次
出來,那天我們騎ubike去松菸,在池邊散步的時候他就主動牽起我的手,還熊抱我,我
推開他,覺得這一切發展得太快,他說我們的節奏差很多(大概是想表達我太慢熱而他很
快的意思)男生很會說話,嘴很甜,一直問我要不要當他女友,他喜歡我。
他有過四段感情,所以我也不會很意外,他很會掌握怎麼曖昧怎麼進展。
看在我眼裏,覺得你怎麼才見幾次面就可以交往?!坦白說,我對他也有好感但會遲疑...
請大家告訴我,該怎麼讓進度緩慢下來,不要好像在趕投胎一直趕趕趕。之前曾經發生過
被有女友的男生追求之類的事,很傻眼,之後對熱情主動的人便產生了一點戒心(我也不
想這樣),另一方面我又是大喇喇的傻大姐,不知道怎麼控制對方的節奏,我一直在想到
底是不是我感覺給對方一堆機會...比如吃宵夜Q___Q
就很晚然後又只有二人...他就會一直展現攻勢...各位男生你們也是這樣嗎?
還有,雖然對方的外型我可以,但他似乎有口臭,待在他旁邊就會感覺到的那種,親嘴一
定很解嗨吧!該怎麼婉轉告訴對方請他改善看看呢?我也不想因為這點打槍人家啊XD
希望我的偶像小生回我文
一定很棒(愛心眼)
小生小生我可以(欵你誰)
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