[心情] 女友坦承她跟好友上床了(代po)消失
代po
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女友有個認識多年很要好的男生朋友L,從高中一直認識到現在,
我跟她交往之初就知道有這個男生存在,她們有時會單獨出去,有時會聊天好幾個小時,
不過女友都會讓我知道,行程從不隱瞞,我也一直對她很信任。
我跟女友目前是在不同縣市,大概一兩週才會見一次面,結果這次見面的時候女友突然跟我坦承她跟L上床了,她一邊講又一直哭,哭到我都慌了,她說之前L心情不好找她聊天,她們在他家談了很久,後來因為太晚女友就留下來,結果當晚她們就發生關係了。
女友一直哭說她之後很後悔,那晚後L聯絡她她也完全沒有回,上班的時候想到這件事就覺得自己很髒,她原本是打算瞞下去,可是後來發現她做不到,她一直覺得很痛苦,上班的時候都會想到反胃。
女友跟我說她知道她這件事做錯了,她選擇坦白讓我知道,這樣她心裡才過得去,如果我不能原諒她,她也願意承擔後果。我當下真得不知道怎麼回答,只好先安撫她,後來越想心情越煩亂,又生氣又難過又捨不得,覺得她為什麼要這麼傻,要是她瞞著我會不會比較好?
現在真的不知道該怎麼辦,她還是會跟平常一樣關心我,想跟我聊天,還有說她願意等我的答案,我該怎麼面對她?
跟她說先暫時讓我冷靜一段時間嗎?這樣好嗎?
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