[求助] 有嫁妝要求聘金很過分嗎?
看板Boy-Girl作者ponyking (請勿餵食)時間7年前 (2016/09/23 00:36)推噓286(358推 72噓 1066→)留言1496則, 293人參與討論串1/21 (看更多)
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朋友沒ptt帳號代po,以下第一人稱,
因為父母疼愛我,所以在確定要結婚時,便決定給我一間房作為嫁妝當新房(無房貸),
前幾天父母跟男友爸媽談到婚禮相關事宜時,要求小聘36萬(大聘不拿),
男友父母拒絕,他們的意思大約是說現代人沒有在收聘的,
而且嫁妝是給新娘,聘金又不是給新郎,要聘金沒道理,
因此雙方父母不歡而散,
可我的觀念一直是以為有嫁妝就有聘金,沒嫁妝就沒聘金,
依媽媽透露,雖然小聘會給我們夫妻貼補家用,但他們就是要拿,那是一種奇蒙子,
事後,我私底下告訴男友我爸爸的意思,
男友反問我,那他父母直接把36萬給他不好嗎?同樣也是貼補家用,
我現在一下覺得男友家沒道理,一下又覺得好像也有點道理,
大家說呢?
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