Re: [求助] 代po 婚前買房引發的爭吵
我是男的,但我要為女方講講話。
首先我很驚訝,原來抱持著傳統觀念的人這麼多。
現在可是21世紀啊。
就原文來看,女方B是空姐。但卻能跟A醫生
一起走過PGY,實習醫生的時光。
足見B不是個短視勢利的人。
至於網友們說B是因為A是潛力股才忍耐,這太朝惡意方向解讀了。至少女方B是有智慧的。
B顧慮可能要照顧公公,B的顧慮完全沒錯。
A是醫生,將來A的父親有事,難道要A辭醫生一個月十幾萬甚至幾十萬來照顧自己老爸嗎?當然是叫媳婦照顧啊。
以我家的例子來說,我大舅媽照顧我外婆二十幾年照顧到翻臉,在大年初二當著全家人面前大哭。
這場景我一輩子都記得,非常震撼。我外婆又很長壽。這對我大舅媽來說是個折磨。
我其實很討厭我大舅媽的,因為我媽我舅都不喜歡她。但她大哭真的震撼了我。
後來我大舅媽跟兒媳婦也處的不好。
我真的很感嘆,我們中國文化有些真的是會逼死人。我以前也是個很傳統的人,可是
看到我外婆,大舅媽跟她兒媳婦的事。
我真心覺得跟公婆保持距離很重要。
B說青春給了A,這話是沒錯的。畢竟現在台灣還是父權社會。就A描述的B的本性來說,
B雖不完美,但已經是個不錯的女孩了,願意陪A同甘共苦.也不要求把房子登記在自己名下.
結果B很無辜的被po出來讓大家辱罵,真的很為B抱不平.
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那叫A父親住在原來的地方不就好了?
反正都是要請看護照顧。A要把老爸辦過來,就有隱含要媳婦照顧的意思,因為A是醫生可能
[1;31m→ mirrorlee: 大舅媽照顧外婆到大哭 那你其他家人在幹嘛 06/11 2
所以後來我舅舅請外傭了
※ 編輯: Haonan (223.136.84.183), 06/11/2016 23:25:11
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其實依我家經驗,外傭有少數不肖的會欺負老人,還是需要管理的。這事情絕對是落在B頭上,B會擔心也是可以理解。
※ 編輯: Haonan (223.136.84.183), 06/11/2016 23:29:11
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當然有輪流照顧啊,但照顧老人確實困難.才一個多月就決定請外傭了.
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還勸分勒,po出來就不應該了.現在板上網友一致罵B女,這樣有甚麼助益嗎??
是希望B在輿論壓力下做個賢妻良母,還是希望AB分手???
如果我是A,自己的老婆被這樣辱罵,我會很難過.
難怪俗話說清官難斷家務事,家裡的事情真的夫妻自己解決就好.
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