壓力很大
男友大我7歲,而我是去年剛畢業的社會新鮮人。
我在去年畢業前因為發生車禍所以要賠償對方,父母表示是我自己闖的禍要我自行處理,
後來跟對方協調好以分期的方式來還他。
出了社會後,每個月領薪水扣除賠償金之外要支付房租、水電、生活開銷還有我本身真的
很愛吃東西,總是到了月底就沒有剩。後來換了工作,薪水也跟第一份工作差不多,所以
一直都是月光族。
男友總說我不知節制,都不會存錢,但我覺得我賺的本來就不多,如果車禍賠償結束之後
就不會那麼吃緊。他卻認為我不夠節省不夠努力,這個月是車禍賠償的最後一期,我原以
為自由了,男友卻開始說我應該要買保險還有定存之類的,我覺得我已經苦很久了好不容
易可以手頭鬆一點,他卻又提出這些,況且我之後還有就貸要還,那到時候是不是又比現
在手頭更緊?
只要我說這些話來反駁他,他就會說我如果節制一點就不會手頭緊,我真的覺得壓力好大
,是我的問題嗎?
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