Re: [求助] 要分手了,求救
※ 引述《skycsmatch (sky)》之銘言:
: 請教大家,我與女友將論及婚嫁,但昨天確因住屋之事大吵,女友是桃園人,租屋在新莊
: ,在台北上班,房租ㄧ個月8千,加上生活費一個月約13000左右,但月薪僅有30000,過
: 的很辛苦,正好小弟家有餘財,在台北有多ㄧ間房子,我提議請他過來住,讓他可以省ㄧ
: 點,但因這間房子目前正在住人,租金約25000,我父母說假如要搬可以,給他們25000就
: 好,其中包含我每個月都要交的保險12000,等於13000就租到的意思,我覺得非常好,就
: 跟女友說了這件事,但女友臉色不太好看
: 女友:我要出錢嗎?
: 我:出5000給我就好房租加生活費都我來出
: 女友:我不要,爲什麼房子自己的還要收錢,都要收錢我自已住就好了
: 我:可是省很多錢啊,且離上班地點又近不是很好嗎?
: 女友:......反正我覺得不合理,不想出
: 我:反正你什麼錢都不出,找個有錢人包養就好了啊
: 接著就爆氣了,認為我在人身攻擊,很侮辱人,當然我當下也ㄧ直道歉,說我是氣話,希
: 望他原諒我,但是他完全不想理我,也直接封鎖我了,請問大家,這還有救嗎?現在心中
: 很難過也很傷心,因為我還是喜歡他的,雖然他脾氣很硬,但真的也是個好女孩...
: 手機排版,請見諒
感謝大家的回覆,我知道我說了無可彌補的重話,是我的錯,我真的也很真心祈求原諒,
另外我請他出那5000是指生活費,吃飯或購買家庭用品等等...上限就五千,多了我出,25
000房租含保險也是我全出,因爲那本就是我該出的,搬過來住他之前是有提過的,他覺
得婚前試婚同居不是壞事,因此我就著手進行了,是我沒注意到他心中擔心我父母帶給他
的壓力,以及講話很難聽,還有金錢方面沒解釋清楚,今天晚上去找他再道歉,希望有好
消息...
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