Re: [討論] 第一次約會時,女生會希望男生付嗎?
先自介男性乙名
個人是支持AA制
雖然說很多時候是男生在追求女生,
但是女生本身也是有意願才會願意吃個飯聊個天,
算是雙方都有意願彼此互相認識,
理論上應該不會有人想要假借約會吃飯騙個飯吃,
既然雙方在都是在平等的價值之下,
為什麼不用AA制才是讓我感覺到困擾的地方,
是因為女性處於弱勢,然而在現在這個社會女性已經不再弱勢,
出於雙方對等的情況下,個人是支持AA制.
至於交往後是否要再AA制,
這其實看雙方心態,
也許有些男性抱著結了婚之後,
錢都交給太太管理,
現在多花的就是你以後少拿到的,
只要結了婚都是太太的,
所以就繼續AA制其實也沒有關係,
當然也會有人說交往的時候還在AA制,
這個男的肯定沒有用心,
千古難題看面對的人才說的準.
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對我來說問題應該這樣問,男生和女生出去為什麼要幫女生出錢,
是用什麼心態幫女生出錢? 體貼? 大器?
[引戰文字在此刪除請各位見諒包函]
原文:原PO是極端平權的份子
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這樣說好了,幫長輩請晚輩吃飯或是晚輩請長輩吃飯 平輩之間互相請客
都是有其義意存在,一見面就請一個陌生人吃飯
對我來說是對一個人的輕視,就像顯示我比你有錢,
或是炫耀自己的一個方式
當然只是個人的觀點(一定會再被噓文)
每個人都是獨力個體 彼此都是對等的
所以我支持AA 再次強調個人觀點 沒有要引戰阿XDDD
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