[討論] 不能接受男友的工作怎麼辦
我們開始交往是大學時,
所以當初還沒有面臨到這個問題,
兩個人相處都很好,
該磨合的也差不多了,
到現在都算是滿穩定的。
只是最近越來越不能接受男友的工作,
他在飲料店當正職,
我不排斥他做他喜歡的工作,
但我真的很不喜歡他們店的環境,
員工各個抽煙、滿口髒話就算了,
他說他們店裡的風氣還有休閒娛樂,
就是員工們12點下班後去同事家打麻將賭錢,
還有偶爾半夜吃熱炒、唱KTV,
沒喝到掛不能離開,
但是隔天照樣早早要去開店!
請問飲料店都是這樣的嗎?
我男友一直說服務業就是這樣,
只有收店以後才能活動,
我勸他換間飲料店他不肯,
我到底該怎麼辦呢?
眼睜睜看著他把身體搞壞嗎?
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我也很煩惱到底該不該繼續交往下去,
但因為在一起也滿長一段時間了,
還是不想這麼輕易就放棄……
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已經當完了,這是他退伍後的第一份工作
※ 編輯: christina052 (118.160.172.237), 09/24/2014 02:18:22
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他跟我說他不會一直這樣為別人賺錢,
他自己打算之後要出來開店,
但我看不到什麼行動。
沒有認真在存錢,
前陣子還貸款買了新摩托車,
再花一堆錢去改裝,
然後還沒開始付學貸,
現在又增加車貸,
存款少少是怎麼創業?
※ 編輯: christina052 (199.181.130.25), 09/24/2014 10:56:18
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謝謝大家都如此認真的替我解答和分析,
我想我會找時間跟男朋友談談的,
希望他願意改變這樣的生活模式,
不然就只好結束這段不適合的關係了…
※ 編輯: christina052 (199.181.130.25), 09/24/2014 18:43:31
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