[求助] 如何界定好的眼光?
有個網友說在擇偶時
要用好的眼光去看人,這樣才不會遇人不淑。
他說:比如你看見屎的上面有一朵花,你要知道那是屎,而不是因為它上面有一朵花,
就覺得它不是屎了。
這個比喻很易懂。但我對界定好的眼光,卻很疑惑,感覺十分抽象,所以發出來問問大
家是怎樣看?
如果一個男人條件很好,又有情趣,又學識淵博,但是很花心,這樣算是屎上有朵鮮花
,還是鮮花上有屎?
淺顯一點讓大家判斷兩個方面:
1.如果一個小開他不犯罪,只是同時和好幾個女人交往,這算屎上有花,還是花上有屎
?
2.如果一個小開他脾氣很暴躁,動不動對女人罵粗口,這算屎上有花,還是花上有屎?
這個問題困擾我很久了。
請大家談談自己的理解。
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舉小開為例,是為了更形象說明男人的條件,金錢和地位之類的好,
本文的目的是為了界定,一個各方面條件不錯的男人,他花心,那他算是屎上有花,還是花
上有屎?
一個各方面條件都不錯的男人,如果對女人爆粗口,那他算是屎上有花,還是花上有屎。
當然換上凡人也可以,總之就是為了界定什麼叫屎上有花,什麼叫花上有屎?
※ 編輯: poppylove (27.109.161.29), 09/19/2014 12:23:55
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其實我認為界定的標準應該是能不能使女方擁有幸福感為準。
因為我現在看人已經不是看好壞,而是會給與綜合評價,所以才感到很矛盾。
有的人你不能全面否定他,也許屎和花也沒有嚴格的界定,
就是看你的接受度如何。
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※ 編輯: poppylove (27.109.161.29), 09/19/2014 12:30:14
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2是比屎還像屎的屎,還是像屎的花?
看來這取捨跟人的容忍度很有關。
換做女人的話,
就是比較很正但脾氣很壞,或者很正但很花心的女人,到底是花還是屎了。
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你這一說,茅塞頓開!
※ 編輯: poppylove (27.109.161.29), 09/19/2014 12:45:22
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流星花園裡面道明寺那種嘴硬心軟的,其實算還好了。因為道明寺並不會對杉菜爆粗。
如果對女人爆粗,這問題還是很嚴重的。XD
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※ 編輯: poppylove (27.109.161.29), 09/19/2014 12:53:51
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請問你認為人格包括哪些方面?
花心,爆粗這些算不算人格方面的問題?
※ 編輯: poppylove (27.109.161.29), 09/19/2014 13:13:59
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