Re: [求助] 跟男友吵架了。我的白目,他的攻擊
大家好,看到版上一連串的討論文章,
但我的想法與主要鄉民們的想法似乎不太一樣,
首先,我可以理解女生的碎念惹火了男生,
我也非常討厭家人每天在我耳邊碎念,
這個戰火的起頭是由女方引起的,大家應該沒什麼意見,跳過不討論,
到底「髒髒」跟「身體殘缺」,哪個比較讓人受傷,
只有案發當時的男生與女生自己知道,
我覺得有問題的是,男方的「因為妳讓我這麼痛,所以我也要讓妳這麼痛」心態,
因為男生覺得自己被受攻擊,所以也要攻擊女生,讓她「也知道被攻擊的滋味」,
我並不覺得這是對待身邊所愛的人的方式,
女生打了男生一巴掌,男生因為覺得痛,就也回打女生一巴掌,
兩者的力道可能不同,兩者的感受(耐打度)可能不同,
但男生為什麼要把自己覺得不喜歡的舉動,回報在女生身上呢?
當男生採取了這樣的行為,不就也是認同了「碎念攻擊對方的弱點」這個舉動嗎?
我覺得男生這樣的反擊,是把女生當成了敵人,而非親密的人。
女生的碎碎唸不應該成為男生反擊的正當理由,
錯不只在女生,雙方都應該反省。
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